Was I wrong for this?

So, I was just in the KAG US CTF 2 server, right? Match starts, My team had just put up some really lame defenses (one block thick tower, about 13 blocks high with ladders behind it; a real basic box around the front flag and none on the back; a trap that was good at first until the enemy broke it, then it became a teamkiller) And I was doing my thing, being a knight/archer, when things started to go bad. The enemy knights were blowing our base up and we were struggling to keep them from taking the flag. They already busted through the door of the flag-box.
Now, the builders were making these really cheap wooden wall things on the top of the box and they weren't really doing much to keep the base fixed. When I pointed this out to them, they gave me the usual response: "You don't like it, fix it yourself." Now this doesn't make any sense to me. I'm being a complete asset to the team helping to keep the enemy away. Why should I have to fix the base if it's their job to do it themselves? I told them that, and they told me to stop complaining. I saw one using an automated tree harvester and called him a minecrafter (in retrospect, I think I was wrong for that). "stop complaining, the builders are working with what they've got." Well, the other team had a perfectly fine base with actual defenses, and I'm sure these maps are symmetrical.
Then the noob tower we had fell. So, with my limited knowledge of being a builder, I started to get stone trying to fortify the wood walls. Failed miserably as I was constantly attacked by knights because the stone was in front of the only defense we had left. Then I fell into the trap, which was made out of team blocks, trap bridges, and spikes. Shortly after, the enemy took the flag. One builder said "Complain now." Then I got kicked out. So, was I right for asking them to do their jobs? Or should I have been softer on these obviously noob builders?

 

I've been there, trying to help my team by suggesting things and what not. The only way it will work is if your polite and suggestive, not commanding and pushy. Ive also had knights stand around and bark commands at me, and most of the time these knights aren't even good at the game.

Nobody likes getting told what to do and its not anyones "job" to do anything. Its a game, they bought it, and they can do whatever they want.

 

It seems to happen to me every game when one builder makes the whole team lose because hes completely inept, hence dirt spikes, areas of safety made from team bridges and other random shit is made by these bad builders. its extremely annoying that they still dont know whats good for the team and continue to hurt the team with these really bad structures.

 

the worst feelings with recent pub games is joining and

A) the game has been going on for at least 20+ minutes, and not ONE shop has been made in that whole time period. nada; no one was feeling it enough to build one shop.

B) you try to up the defense on the main hall / base, and someone constantly keeps taking the restock crate and runs off to some hole in the back of the base until he dies on the front lines.

 

...and neither team has covered their flags at all.
...and the builders are making some huge wooden castle on top of the flag that you can't climb up.
...etc.

 

Have this pretty often, they build some 8 blocks high wall at front and don't do anything with the flags, so I start telling them to protect them and entomb them, they respond 'we are getting resources for that' while the build time is over, the enemy team has a nice base and all our flags are getting capped.

 

I've been there. It's pretty much essential that I be the 100-kill knight on my team, because whenever I try to switch to builder, we instantly lose too much ground for a builder to be effective. Terrible builders just want someone else to blame.

 

Yeah this is pretty much my life.